What I know for sure is that no matter where you stand right now. on a hilltop, in a gutter, at a crossroads, in a rut — you need to give yourself the best you have to offer in this moment. This is it. Rather than depleting yourself with… judgments about what you haven’t done, who you could have become, why you haven’t moved faster, or what you should have changed, redirect that energy toward the next big push-the one that takes you from enough to better. The one that takes you from adequate to extraordinary. The one that helps you rise up from a low moment and reach for your personal best.” –Oprah
We all have those mornings. The one where we hit the snooze button a few times, wishing we could crawl under the covers and start the day over.
What do you do when you find yourself in a rut? I love that quote from Oprah…instead of beating ourselves up for where we may not be, how do move from adequate back into extraordinary?
Below are some quick tips for getting back to happy.
1) Write yourself a short note to yourself about your accomplishments. Since we naturally tend to focus on what isn’t working, by putting our attention to what is, we re-direct the universe’s energy towards what we want more of, versus what we don’t have. Self-acknowledgement may not come easily, so this is a great opportunity to practice.
2) Bless your mess. Remind yourself that everything in life up until this point has brought you here. While it has not always ended up the way you’ve have liked it to, you are still here. Instead of judging your mess, think of a gift that it has brought you. For me, my mother’s death is reminding me this week to take bigger risks and live life more fully.
3) Shake your bootee! Go out and exercise! Take a walk, dance class, etc. Moving your body literally helps to clear the chi and emotional energy that is stored. Last week, I blogged about the mixed emotions my birthday week brought up and committed to walking 5x a day. While I am still missing my mom, exercising definitely lifts my spirit.
4) This one complements #3. Dance in your living room. You might be laughing at me with this one, but truly, it works wonders! Do you have a favorite song that makes you grin from ear to ear? Would love to do the “Material Girl” jiggle but feel embarrassed? Close those curtains and crank up the tunes for just one song.
Last but not least, try happy on for a few minutes. Even if you are at the end of this entry and feeling funky—close your eyes and go inside. Think of one happy moment, think of what happy feels like for you. Take 3 deep breaths thinking about happy. You can always change your mind later.
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