When we are grieving, our peace is disturbed. Everything that is familiar becomes uprooted and we find ourselves navigating turbulent emotions ranging from sadness, anger to guilt. One of the things we can do for ourselves is to find new ways to anchor ourselves during this challenging time. One way I’ve found to help me … Read more
This morning at breakfast, my daughter asked me why the petals on the purple tulips were missing. The bouquet arrived last week for my birthday. After a week of being the centerpiece on our dining room table, it began shedding its bloom the past few days. Kayman and I had great fun, using the vibrant … Read more
I had an experience this morning that made me pause to examine what disappointments are made of. Prompts me to ask myself again, are most disappointments ours to begin with, or did we model the feeling of disappointment from our own parents only to pass them onto our kids unknowingly? As a grief coach, one … Read more
The grieving process is organic. Even years after losing a much loved companion animal, you might find your heartstrings tugged and heavy at moments. You might see a dog that looked just like yours at the park, a happy memory of something you used to do together. In times like this, it is healthy to … Read more
luxepets::pet loss and other thoughts: Light a candle in remembrance for the one you love…: “Today, I light an In Loving Remembrance Candle in remembrance of Sophie Chew, the inspiration behind Luxepets and my grief counseling p…”
Today, I light an In Loving Remembrance Candle in remembrance of Sophie Chew, the inspiration behind Luxepets and my grief counseling practice. It has been 8 years since her transition, and she is a constant reminder of the work I do.If you are experience loss in your life and missing your loved one, consider lighting a … Read more
A referral came in yesterday about pet loss and children. A mom emailed, sharing their 17 year old cat was ready to transition. She wasn’t sure if she should tell her 3 1/2 year old daughter, what to tell her etc. For some of us life long pet lovers, the first time we dealt with … Read more
*The American Red Cross has named April National Pet First Aid Awareness Month to create awareness about how pet owners can prepare for disasters. Veterinary Pet Insurance Co.’s veterinary expert, Dr. Silene Young, offers these important reminders: Preparing for a Disaster and Evacuation: Make sure your pet can be identified with an I.D. tag and microchip. Don’t forget … Read more
The ending of a relationship, whether with a romantic partner, a job, a home, a loved one, an animal companion are all considered losses. We are faced with two basic options. Grief and move through whatever we are feeling, or bury the feelings for a later time. If we commit to moving through grief, the … Read more
I am on day 3 of a 30 day meditation practice for grief and loss. Initially, I decided to partake in this journey to walk the talk, not only be able to facilitate this meditation but experience it. What I’ve come to realize, is what a huge gift this is for me. To become a … Read more