But what if I am not grateful?

In honor of U.S. Thanksgiving this week…most Americans are bountiful with gratitude. But if we are grieving, is this possible? Is it possible to find gratitude if we are having trouble getting out of bed in the morning? What if we are missing the beloved dog we took for walks every morning? Or having to say goodbye to hopes and dreams of the baby that was going to be? Or finding some bit of goodness in a divorce filled with more drama than most soap operas?